Tuesday, June 24, 2008

Marriage Passbook - 婚姻存摺

I just receive one forwarded email about marriage. Title is "Marriage Passbook".

Chinese Version:
我的'婚姻存摺'是出嫁那天,媽媽遞到我手上的,
當時,我以為會是一大筆錢,打開一看發現只有1000元,
我用失望的眼神看著媽媽,媽媽卻笑著說:'這是我特意為你們辦理的'婚姻存摺',
'以後每逢值得紀念的日子,都可以存一筆錢,
等到老的時候,裡面除了錢,還有無限的幸福…'。
當時,我對母親這份心思不以為然,倒是丈夫記在了心上。
婚後沒多久!,他就先後存了兩個500元,
一個是因為他升職了,第二個是因為我手術治愈出院。
當時我嘴上笑他無聊,其實心裡甜蜜無比,
畢竟他把我的健康也當作一件讓他感到幸福的事。
沒過多久,我懷孕了,這一次,我足足往裡面存了2000元。
但很快,我們開始有了爭吵和冷漠﹔
孩子出生帶來的快樂是短暫的,洗不完的尿布、喂不完的奶,
進一步加劇了我們感情的惡化而那本婚姻存摺像被遺忘了,
寂寞地躺在抽屜角落,上面的數字久未見漲。
我們鬧離婚的時候,媽媽說:你們先把存摺上面的錢花光了再離吧,
雖然錢不多,但是你們共同的財產。
於是,我第一次取了1000元,然後拎著幾件心儀已久的衣服離開商場時,
我又回去對售貨小姐說:'對不起,我不買了!請你退回我剛才付給你的錢。'
也許當時的局面窘迫極了,
但我腦海裡想到的是那1000元婚姻積蓄的來源:
他是個害羞的男人,但曾在街頭大聲地對我說'我愛你',我為此存下200元,
他記得我的生日、鞋號、密碼及最怕的事,我為此在生日那天存下300元,
他對女人有風度,也有距離,不給暗戀他的女下屬任何機會,我為此存下500元...
啊,這1000元裡就有這麼多的幸福積累,
再看看婚姻存摺上的兩萬多元,我的眼睛忽然就有些濕潤起來。
晚上回到家,我把存摺交給他,說:'趕緊花吧,花光了好離婚。
第二天晚上,他把存摺遞到我手上,我打開一看,發現反而多了1000元。
他說:'那上面的每一元錢都記錄著我們走過的歷程。'
我第一次發覺原來是這樣的愛你,索性又存進了1000元,
我們從此又和好如初了。
還是媽媽說得對,以愛情的名義為婚姻開個戶口,
把夫妻間所有快樂的、幸福的、浪漫的事,通通存進銀行!
有了這本日積月累的婚姻存摺,即使是再貧窮的婚姻,也決不害怕透支。
這一生,你可能會遇到許多喜歡你的人。
但是,你可能永遠都遇不到一個你真正愛的人。
所以,一但遇到了,一定要好好的把握。
很多事情,錯過了就沒有了,錯過了就是會變的,緣份也是。

English Version (translated):
My mom give me a "marriage passbook" when the day i getting marry.
That time, i though there must be a lot of money, but it just 1000 only.
I am very disappointed and look on my mom, mom say "this is special make for you both "marriage passbook"
"you may save some money when on memorable day,
wait until older, beside money, there was unlimited happiness"
at that time, i don't really know what mom meaning, but my husband is remember it.
after marry, he save 2 x 500 inside
because he is promoted and i just cover from hospitality
although i laugh on his action, but my heart is so sweet
because he make my healthy as a happiness thins
after a while, i am pregnant. This time, i had save 2000
then we staring to have arguing and feel indifferent
happy given by children born is short, diaper not washed, milk not feed
make our relationship worst and that "marriage passbook" also been forgotten
lonely hiding below table, the amount on it no longer there
we want to divorce and mom say "if want to divorce, please spend all the money in "marriage passbook""
although the money is not many but its our asset
then, i take 1000 and buy some new fashion cloth that i like in shopping mall
but i when back and ask cashier to pay back my money as i want the money back
that situation is so embarrassing,
but in my mine just think of where 1000 came from:
he is very shy, but dare to shout "I love u" on street and because this, i save 200
he remember my birthday, shoe number, password and most fear thing, i save 300
he is gentleman to lady, not given a chance for someone who unrequited loving him, u save 500...
ah, 1000 got a lot of happiness,
look again on 20000 on "marraige passbook", my tears coming out.
at night, i give "marriage passbook" to him, say:"faster spend all the money, let us divorce faster"
on the next day, he give me back "marriage passbook", oops, there was extra 1000
he say:"every single cents is recording road both of us has been pass through."
i just realize that he was so loving me, then i put another 1000
then our relationship become better and better
mom say right, open an account on love and marriage
put all happiness, romantic thing inside the account!
with this "marriage passbook", although there was poor marriage, wont scare of over drawing.
in this life, you may know with a lot people that u like.
but, it is possible that you wont be meeting someone who is really love you.
so, once meet up, have to appreciate more
there's a lot of thing once miss it, there will no more turning back, so do fate.

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